they are very nice but im 15 and you can understand that you want freedoom at that age but i miss them know and im living somewhwhere were they don’t care let me eat when ever sleep when ever what should i do go back or stay,im just so stubberned and im not racist but there black and im white i don’t know it’s just different!!i’ve only been here for 2 days!
IF THEY GAVE YOU RULES AND REGULATIONS IS BECAUSE THEY CARE FOR YOU! IF YOU MISS THEM SO MUCH THEN GO BACK AND BE GRATEFUL THEY’RE TAKING YOU IN
if you felt more comfortable over there then move back over there im sure if you were a good kid with them they are probably missing you too…goodluck!!
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im a child of a foster family. but im not in fostercare. if they are not nice you should tell the social work or your woman/man that you speak to (for got the word) and if you are not comfurtable with them then im sure they will move you. but im not sure you will get back to the last carer that you like. if you like these new carers or try to like them im sure you will get more freedom AND be able to stay in foster care if u know what i mean? they will trust you and will give you more space. they will be much friendlier.
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its like that in my house hold. if they are stubborn we dont get along.
everybody needs structure growing up, it’s what promotes responsibility. you’re at a crucial age right now where the habits you develop today will shape who you are for the rest of your life, and if you want that to be a responsible, self reliant, dependable, trustworthy person, then you should go back. it sounds to me that your previous home had that structure. and i’m sure you got into some "discussions" about your freedom. this may have seemed (to you and/or the parental figures) that it meant that it wasn’t going well, but that’s not the case at all. at your age you SHOULD be arguing with the adults in your life. they’re older & more experienced, and you’re younger and think they don’t understand where you’re coming from. this is EXACTLY what you need. I think you should go back.
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your being given an opportunity to better yourself and situation. Dont be short sighted. Give yourself a chance because its a jungle out there. I was raised in the projects on welfare to drug addicts. My life expectancy and my future both didnt seem good. I moved in with a white family (nonwhite) went to a great school, now im educated and a homeowner. dont blow it girl.
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If you’re more comfortable there then go! After all it’s YOUR decision and YOUR happiness.
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Follow Your Heart. If you have any doubts about where you are right now, go ahead and go back where you think you might feel better, seems like you’ve grown sort of close to Your previous home. Follow Your Heart.
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Do what you like if you like your old foster family then go back to them but if you like where you are now stay make your own choice. Do what your heart tells you. No one on Yahoo answers can tell you right or wrong because you determine your future no one else does but you, make the choice that will make you happy not what other people want for you. These people on here are strangers(including me) Im not telling you which one to choose im just saying do what your heart says. Trust the only person that can make your future YOU!
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If you really like them… and miss them. Then you should go back with them. If you feel your old enough for your freedom, and to live with yourself. Live where you live, and visit them, call them sometimes, and just sometimes hang-out.I think that will work.
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I would go back because I missed them.
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i think you should go back to the ones that actually show interest they probably miss you more than you miss them
but the thing were your new family lets you do whatever whenever isn’t necessarily a bad thing
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I think you should go back to your other foster family i guess you don’t feel like you fit in with your new ones. so if i were you i would go back. good luck
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IF THEY GAVE YOU RULES AND REGULATIONS IS BECAUSE THEY CARE FOR YOU! IF YOU MISS THEM SO MUCH THEN GO BACK AND BE GRATEFUL THEY’RE TAKING YOU IN
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It will take some time to get use to someone you need to also understand that they don’t know you and they are letting you live there so take some time before you start hating on them. Being a foster parent is a hard and stressful job, but you should go or stay where ever makes you happy and also try to be a good teen because that is a hard year for kids so just know that they care about you and so do your other foster parents just be good and find your place.
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What do you feel in your heart? White American’s and black American’s share some similarities but our culture is different. Give it some time two days isn’t enough to judge the situation. It may not be what your use to but if you go in it with an open mind it won’t be so bad. We (as people) tend to judge things according to our upbringing and environment and if they’re not to our standards we think it’s wrong or it’s weird but that’s not true. Different cultures have different standards to live by and different ways of doing things but you shouldn’t judge people by that. You should judge people by their character/personalities and their spirit. It could be a good learning experience if you’re up to the challenge. Open your mind, experience the culture, and give it a try. They probably don’t know how to treat you or how to handle the situation! Give them a chance. They will open up to you if they see you embracing their culture it’s a matter of understand, communication and respect.
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